Often external events and circumstances seem to rush in to assist with our intended result. This knowledge is priceless. The knowledge that our positive mind-set can translate into a world of difference regardless of the goal we seek.
- Self Confidence When we lack confidence in ourselves our capabilities then ultimately our self-esteem suffers. The end result is a sense of worthlessness but also helplessness but even hopelessness and self-destructive behaviours in some cases. This in turn makes us feel inadequate and see everything as pointless. It is easy to stop trying to achieve because there is simply no point. We are defeated before we even begin. That’s why the correct self-confident mind-set is crucial to all other mind-sets we may adopt. First we must tackle the root cause, that puss.
When we have empowered our SELF with the confidence and belief in our SELF then we will be better able to accomplish the things we are already good at and also to learn how to do the things that at present we cannot. Accomplishing our goals and objectives becomes much easier. We are empowered from the inside out. And the results we can achieve reinforce our beliefs and boost our self-esteem and confidence even more. It can be a rising balloon spiralling upwards or a viscous circle spiralling downwards – depending on our choice.
- Determination & Perseverance Part of a positive mind-set includes the determination and perseverance to overcome failures when they occur. Getting though life without failure is impossible, yet it’s the difference is the reactions and meanings we give to those failures that will determine whose mind ends up where. If we take a failure as meaning we are wasting our time and react by giving up then often we are not realizing our true potential.
Of course some failures are met to let us know that this is a goal that is unreachable. But knowing the difference is all important. Part of the positive mind-set is knowing that we will experience failures along the way and that that is normal in life and we should not put undue importance on some failures. Being able to evaluate correctly what went wrong and why and to see failure in the light of positive thinking and empowerment to perhaps try harder or by tackling the problem in a different way is essential. It is the acknowledgement that very few things worth having are so easily attained. A positive mind-set is conscious of the fact that one failure is not the end of the story but just one way it didn’t work. True failure only comes when we stop trying altogether.
- Taking Action The correct positive mind-set leads to proactive positive action. Even when we are unsure or unable to proceed because of lack of knowledge or skill, a positive mind-set allows us to research and acquire those skill sets until we are able to achieve the actions we already know are necessary and important to succeed.
A person’s core inner beliefs and thought patterns are what lead to their feelings of potentiality, action and results. Simply by changing your mind-set it is possible to change not only our outlook in life by also the actual results we obtain in life.
Watch Your Self Talk Far too often we give too much attention to thoughts that are negative. This knowledge can sometimes be distressing at first and make us feel somewhat powerless over what thoughts are permeating our minds and our lives. However, if we take small steps by taking just a few of those negative thought patterns at a time and begin turning them into positive thoughts, we will feel much happier, stronger and gradually begin to take back control of our mind-set. All it takes is the commitment to start and experience the positive benefits that this technique can deliver.
Co-Creation Allowing our subconscious to flounder without leadership can sometimes hinder the correct mind-set that we need. Directing our thoughts to show that WE ARE IN CONTROL is absolutely fine and a great attitude to develop. Start leading your mind with authority and with solid direction. My suggestion is to make a diary of the changes you see once this is implemented.
It is often hard for people to imagine and accept that there is a possibility that they are co-creating their life and their world. Because if we are to accept that then we must accept that we have also co-created all that has happened before. In the end it is always up to us. No one can make us make the changes we may need. It is up to us to examine our negative self-talk, to take responsibility for it and ultimately to make the conscious choices that lead to a more positive direction.
Be Willing To Change These are your thoughts, so YOU can change them, you are the master of the ship. Although your beliefs most likely formed when you were young, you are an adult today and you have the power to affect change in your life. This is the essence of personal power: choice and responsibility.
Feed The Mind-Set You Want The fastest way to change your mind-set is to feed your mind the one you want. Every time you feed your mind with positive thoughts you are eradicating negative thoughts as feeding the positive weakens the negative.
Scientists and perennial wisdom agree with what many successful people have long discovered, that neurons don’t know the difference between whether you are actually doing something different or simply visualizing doing it differently. Either way, the neural network grows stronger.
Start Loving Your Mind-Set Allow yourself to create a passion for your new mind-set. The new mind-set you want to create. Doing this creates endorphins in your body that lead to a new sense of wellbeing. This in turn leads to a more inspired and emotionally engaged you, having more fun in your life as you enlarge and make stronger your new neural network.
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