Making excuses in life to avoid making decisions is so easy – how do I know? I was the number ONE bombshell at it. You would not tell me something to be done, and I did not have a valid ( in my mind ) reason for saying I could not wouldn’t do it.
Then I had the shocker that nothing was changing in my sorry ass life. I became a squirrel in a cage; the marriage was the same, finances the same, relationships, i.e., friendships the same and I was miserable. I held onto friends who were not serving me, a marriage that wasn’t serving me, oh by the way until he left me might I add.
I kept finding excuses to keep my minds trash. You see I was happy with same old same old until when I was jolted into reality.
I found my ass in court, fighting for my kids, my sanity, my reputation, and the lot.
What was worse- was the realization that the some of the same friends I knew were not serving me were included in what should have been my demise, I had no choice but to dump my sorry as excuses. I had no choice BUT to stop making excuses- I was fighting for life, my kids, my resources, my reputation, and integrity. Don’t be like me having to be pushed to stop making excuses. Today I find it so easy to dump my minds trash, let go of people that don’t serve me, make choices that will impact my life and my kids future – but more the lives of others.
√Are you guilty of making EXCUSES for why you cannot do something, fix something, change something?
√Do you want to be in the position of having to be in flight or flight mode?
√ What decisions do you need to make today -that you have been finding excuses for?
Action: make a decision today to stop the excuses , life has no replay button to it.